Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Anger Management



















Well I certainly ain't as poetic as Shakespeare but i find that the words holds more meaning than what we would actually think of it. First and foremost, we are what we are and the choices we make is what makes us who we are. But if there is a chance you make a yourself better than who you are yesterday seem like a bad thing? Well it all depends on you actually.

There are many people out there in the world and every single soul and body out there is different in many ways. Heck! One Pamela Anderson and one Paris Hilton is enough! The world would fall into a stupidity spur if there are more of them around.

I'm absolutely certain that a person has absolute choice to control what they want and don't want to do but in a condition that we must not loose cool no matter what happen. Emotion, its the most basic element of what makes us human. But having it run out of control is the worst thing to possibly happen. Letting Eric Bana become THE HULK is one of the examples of uncontrolled rage, nobody likes it when someone is angry.

First and most impulsive emotions which makes you leap before you think. ANGER! Yes its right. We usually say things we don't mean or things that makes another persons heart felt like skewered kebabs. Worst comes to worst, the words don't come out but our bodies just speak with action straight from what we think. But hey, what would we gain from anything anger has to offer? It gives our nerves a pump they don't need, equips the heart a type of fiery spirit (definitely not a passion for something) and if its out of control, who knows what kinda things we might regret doing when the rage is over? Solution to try out, when you notice you are getting pissed, ask yourselves a few question if you can still maintain your cool.

1. Is it worth it being angry?

2. Are the things or subject you are angry about that important to be angry in the first place?

3. Does anger bring out a positive outcome in the end?

3. Would you mind if other people especially someone close to you see your outburst?

Its not a 100% will work because it also depends the individual personality or each person but at least it is still an option that we can still think of from with whatever rational thinking we have left in that state.

1 comment:

  1. i think its important that everyone think before they speak so as not to say anything that one will regret later. but i think its very hard to near impossible to alot of people. -.-"

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